Being born Gay

[Hazza]

Hmm ye i can see where your coming from.



But how can anyone possibly be born gay? It's all got to bow down to the social environment you grow up in.

You say you started liking boys.. So this kinda proves that you wasn't born gay... :S

Ok, let me ask you this - you're gay right? - Have you ever thought about a girl in a sexual way in your life? If its you're social environment wouldn't all your mates be gay too...?

[Clowgon]

Ok, let me ask you this - you're gay right? - Have you ever thought about a girl in a sexual way in your life? If its you're social environment wouldn't all your mates be gay too...?

Oh sorry if i didn't make it clear, no i'm not full on gay (Bi).

Well most of my friends who I've know since i was in Nursery are even Gay or bisexual. Many of them feel the same that they weren't born how they are today, many of them think strongly that it's down to the fact they were bought up in a mostly male social environment.

[Hazza]

Well you must live in a odd area because there's not many people I know are gay... and if you're Bi you still really wouldn't know to the full extend lol.

[Clowgon]

Lol odd area. I would tbh as this is deffo not a phrase i'm going through, I've know for years that i am bi and I've experience relationships with both M and F but if you know what your really are and sure that your not confused or anything like that then probably know the reason for what you are today.

I'm sure many people believe that they were born gay but there's no concrete evidence to prove that is completely true i don't think no will be be able provide the answer to explain why people are either gay or bi. If so, not for many years.

[-:Undertaker:-]

You are born gay, being gay effects your enviroment - whether you like football, hang out with girls and so on (of course there are many exceptions to this). Your enviroment is effected by who you are, whether your a naturally shy person, a gay guy - all of it.

You have always been gay, therefore the choices/decisions made in your life and those effects have all been effected by you being gay, just you didnt realise it.

[Clowgon]

I have to say i disagree i'm afraid. Since i was at the age of 7 or so, I've always liked girls and have never felt the way i feel boys the way i do now but because my social surroundings have changed, from probably the age of 9-10 ish I've become physically attracted to boys.

I deffo wasn't born liking the same sex, i am sure of that.

[-:Undertaker:-]

I have to say i disagree i'm afraid. Since i was at the age of 7 or so, I've always liked girls and have never felt the way i feel boys the way i do now but because my social surroundings have changed, from probably the age of 9-10 ish I've become physically attracted to boys.

I deffo wasn't born liking the same sex, i am sure of that.

You most likely never liked girls properly at that age, especially at the age of seven. If you did the onset of puberty most likely made your hormones go crazy and perhaps you did like girls for a short period, once that settled however - you returned to normal. Unless you thought you liked girls because your friends and peers did, but you never really.

I have never heard of boys as young as seven liking people sexually anyway;- do you actually like girls now as it stands?, do you think of girls in the same way you do with boys when you see them?

[DamianLove]

I think you're probably born gay and you can't really change that.
However your social environment obviously affects how you cope with it.
Either repressing it or been open about it from the word go.

Fun recent video about it from Michael Buckley; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CHusuzKdXXA

[Clowgon]

You most likely never liked girls properly at that age, especially at the age of seven. If you did the onset of puberty most likely made your hormones go crazy and perhaps you did like girls for a short period, once that settled however - you returned to normal. Unless you thought you liked girls because your friends and peers did, but you never really.

I have never heard of boys as young as seven liking people sexually anyway;- do you actually like girls now as it stands?, do you think of girls in the same way you do with boys when you see them?

Hmm don't know about that one.. I'm deffo not full on gay and i haven't liked girls because people around me like them. Always have been attracted to females and always will do.

Nothings changed and i do think of girls in the same way that i think of boys.

[Wahey]

I know girls who have had Bf's but went Les, so no i don't believe it