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[Blinger1]

Mm that's true but tbh I spend too much on her already, compared to what she buys me. It's like when we hang out I always pay for everything!
I'll was joking around by SMS saying I was her valentine and where my present and kiss was etc and she replied it's in the mailbox..? And then went on to say something about this Jarrod guy to see her reaction, and I was "asleep" so I ignored it. Then at 12:17 I got thus:

Happy valentines day lover
Feel loved coz ur the only person I'm saying happy vtines day to
Probs coz I do secretly love u...I mean *cough cough no I don't* lol
Anywho ur a good kid. I would send u a textual rose but I dunno how to
I even went to the effort of looking for a good one on the Internet but it's to complicated ahhh wells ily fool!!!!!
I actually tried making a rose from something off the Internet
I failed miserably

Sorry for double post but editing on a mobile is horrible, merge posts please?

Umm, droppig hints doesn't work. She is to dumb, seriously.

Posts merged by Nicola (Forum Moderator)

[dbgtz]

Bring out your penis, that'll be a big enough hint.

But seriously you could do the cliche(the french e thing) romance/date moves on her, she'd understand then. Or just blow it out and ask, but I read somewhere if youre scared of rejection say it in a way which you can't be rejected like "hey, maybe we should hook up more often" or something like that.

[Nicola]

By the looks of that text I'd say you're safe to ask her

[Dinosaurawrr]

i agree with nicki!!
id say its time

[Meree.]

I think that she can already see some hints as you sleep in the same bed together when you crash the night, aswell as her flirting with you, (your hardly going to not flirt back) But seeing as she is with someone, I think you should just tell her how you feel for now. I mean it's a start. You don't want to put pressure on her by asking her out whilst she's with someone. That would just be majorly awkward. See what she says, and if she feels the same then consider things to her, ask her what she wants to do, and just tell her how you TRULY feel. You never know, she might just pick you if she knew.

[Blinger1]

Okay I messaged her saying as she was my valentine what we are doing today/tonight, and got this message back:

Well I'm back to work n then I'm seeing Jarrod after like 11:30 coz he finishes work ******edly late n he said he'd make me nachos *shakes fist* n if he doesn't Ima beat the kid. So i'm feeling I have between 4:30 n 11:30 to do anything with u my valentine
What u wanna do?


So she is seeing this me and this guy tonight, i'ma try and bring up how she feels

[Stryderman]

Just ask her, or get her to sign up to HxF and i'll send her a loveeeeeeeee poem for ya

That brang a smile to my face haha

Okay I messaged her saying as she was my valentine what we are doing today/tonight, and got this message back:

Well I'm back to work n then I'm seeing Jarrod after like 11:30 coz he finishes work ******edly late n he said he'd make me nachos *shakes fist* n if he doesn't Ima beat the kid. So i'm feeling I have between 4:30 n 11:30 to do anything with u my valentine
What u wanna do?


So she is seeing this me and this guy tonight, i'ma try and bring up how she feels

Yeh you got nothing to lose and all to gain although you share a bed which to me isnt that much of a big deal. I used to share my bed with alot of girl mates from school and nothing came of it, was just because i would prefer being warm up to someone than freeze on me own

[MrGazet]

Hm looks to me, you should ask the question.She seems to be dropping all these hints which is good. Couldn't hurt to try yeah?
Plus,she didn't admit that he is her bf and I think maybe she is undecided between you and him? If she is too dumb to pick up your hints which you said she is,you shoud be straightforward and tell her your feelings but not really really in a dramatic way haha.

Best of luck though,may the best man wins hahah

[Blinger1]

Hmm, when i asked her about the message about valentines she kinda made it out to sound that she wasn't interested like that. And it was more of a way of just mucking around? I dunno, i recorded it so i could remember how she said it. She just read the message because she 'forgot' what it said and then said what it means in a normal voice.


gar, i didn't ask btw, i haven't got the balls

[Nicola]

Hmm, when i asked her about the message about valentines she kinda made it out to sound that she wasn't interested like that. And it was more of a way of just mucking around? I dunno, i recorded it so i could remember how she said it. She just read the message because she 'forgot' what it said and then said what it means in a normal voice.


gar, i didn't ask btw, i haven't got the balls

Maybe she was worried that you were freaked out by the message so she tried to act like she wasn't serious by saying that she 'forgot' what it said.

Out of curiousity what did she say it means? referring to the last line here.