Your views on a **** buddy

[GoldenMerc]

One of you will get attached.

[Grig]

I'd have to question what the 21st century has turned into. Experimenation is by all means OK. But a **** buddy in my view is crossing a very thin line. Limits are limits, sure it may be fun and all- but it is just wrong.

[Pyroka]

I'd have to question what the 21st century has turned into. Experimenation is by all means OK. But a **** buddy in my view is crossing a very thin line. Limits are limits, sure it may be fun and all- but it is just wrong.

Its better than paying for it.

[jennifuh]

Ah yeah, it is fun, no commitments and all but they never seem to work out. Usually one person will end up liking the other, getting attached while the other doesn't feel the same, ending up in hurt feelings. When one wants something serious, and the other doesn't, it's like "***, so that's alll I can be to you, a **** buddy?!" Or one ends up liking the other, and gets incredibly jealous at anything you do with anyone else. It can end awkwardly even without this happening, but iunno, just what I've found!

[Catchy]

You only live once why not.

[FlyingJesus]

me + my ex were "****" buddies for a while.
sure, i enjoyed the sex and i enjoyed the freedom but it completely destroyed me eventually because i couldn't differentiate between sex + love.
and i don't think a lot of young people can, and i think the more you do it, the more you will fall for this girl.

once or twice is fine, but when it becomes a regular affair, you'll begin to miss it when you can't have it and soon it won't be footloose + fancy free.

YEAH BUT LET'S FACE IT BETHIE YOU'RE A FOOL OF AN AFRICAN

I'd have to question what the 21st century has turned into. Experimenation is by all means OK. But a **** buddy in my view is crossing a very thin line. Limits are limits, sure it may be fun and all- but it is just wrong.

What has "happened" is that people are starting to get back to how things should be. Historically there has often been no divide between being friends and sleeping together - before Victorian times friends and bedmates were pretty much the same thing and it was only during that fairly recent era of history (coupled with the Puritan movement in America) that sex was deemed morally wrong and the big push was put out by the church, and therefore due to the times by social pressure, not to have sex

[Soy]

your cool :8

[crazed]

I'm 15, I am really close to all my mates, especially close to Michelle, we have tried almost everything, i dont see anything wrong with it - its all safe and there are no strings attached, we're young and experemental but some people seem to have a problem with it. Dont really know how they found out but they just talk about it behind our backs, we arent bothered, could just because they arent getting any. I think its good to have one, no strings attached, improvements, give each other tips. Obvs we stop when either of us get a partner though

I don't really mind. I have one of my own so its all cool (Y)

[JACKTARD]

We made some ground rules before it all started about being attached, if either of us did, then we would stop. Also, would stop if either of us got into a relationship.

Its not like a really really regular thing, its not like we're rabbits. Its more like once a fortnight.

[LoveToStack]

Fair enough if you can handle it, I'd be worried about getting emotionally involved or her doing the same though. If that did happen it would be hard to avoid getting hurt or hurting her which I assume you don't want to happen. Friends first, then becoming **** buddies just seems right on the path to someone falling for the other, especially since you're getting so close to her. I don't judge you for doing it, just worry about how it will end really.