yeah so many warning signs there
he's very controlling over her and he's allowed get upset but she's not, telling her to cut up the photos? who does he think he is. thats utterly ridiculous and then when she started getting upset (rightly so, he was having a go at her for a stupid reason) he tells her that she has NO RIGHT to get upset! and that he should be the one thats upset
she needs to get out of that relationship asap, it wont be healthy and i think outside the house he could be very scary