My friend right..

buttons · 28-01-2009, 04:25 PM

yh ok well basically my friend was a closet homo (gay but hasnt came out yh) and coz i have the tendancy to make gays straight and straight girls gay he's recently decided he's bisexual (jk bout turnin ppl btw)

so yer he told me few weeks ago he thinks he's bi/confused. + ever since he flirts with me :S we've been best friends for 3 year now so it's weird. even before he changed his mind he used to flirt with me/feel me up when we were drunk n blame it on drink. yh neway after school we usually go out to pubs for lunch n i didn't on monday n tuesday i babysat and he texted me "you were ok on friday what's up" blahblahblah n it's like "i'm ok:S stop asking"

he's always treatin me like a baby n i feel uncomfortable round him now. most days at school if one friends going to the toilet he'll say "go to the toilet with shauni n me and jennifer will meet you next 2 blahbhablh" like, what if i wanted to go? I CAN DECIDE FOR MYSELF

and i asked him to bring in exam timetable for me tomorow and he said "i'll photocopy it if you like" & i'm like "errrrrr do u have a photocopier at home?" n he said he'd just go to the shop n pay for it to be photocopied and i said "nah it's ok" and he said "i'd do it for u"

OMGGGGG like i feel so uncomfortable now he's either lookin out for me like a friend would but it's just like treating me like a baby. & he gives me stuff even if i don't ask for it like alcohol for free and i'm like :/ k. I DUNNO myb im just being paranoid y'know.

i'm worried in case he likes me LOL coz that'd spoil EVERYTHING n he's the closest friend i've got

wot u fink

Soy · 28-01-2009, 08:16 PM

That's awkward and If he tries anything that could ruin a good freindship.......

Good luck with that hehe

x!candi!x · 28-01-2009, 10:59 PM

That sounds really awkward lol. I was in the same position a few months ago and he asked me out and I was like ermmmmm....sorry but I don't really want a relationship atm and I think we are better of as friends. I think you should let him down gently though because you don't want to lose a friendship over something like this. Also tell him that you don't feel comfortable taking money from him so will he stop offering to buy you things.

Also like if he flirts kind of ignore him and maybe he will take the hint??

leah · 29-01-2009, 01:25 PM

is it tht ricky dude?
erm basically just wait until he says he likes you and then say you just wanna be mates.
or you could be like omg ur my best friend ever

buttons · 29-01-2009, 04:21 PM

Originally Posted by x!candi!x

That sounds really awkward lol. I was in the same position a few months ago and he asked me out and I was like ermmmmm....sorry but I don't really want a relationship atm and I think we are better of as friends. I think you should let him down gently though because you don't want to lose a friendship over something like this. Also tell him that you don't feel comfortable taking money from him so will he stop offering to buy you things.

Also like if he flirts kind of ignore him and maybe he will take the hint??

was gonna take the money thing to my advantage :eusa_whis

but i aint that harsh if i don't accept anything all i'll get is "what's wrong? tell me, you can tell me anything"

Originally Posted by Leaahh.

is it tht ricky dude?
erm basically just wait until he says he likes you and then say you just wanna be mates.
or you could be like omg ur my best friend ever

loool yeh i could make it clear i just wanna be friends by saying that. might do that but he could take it the wrong way too >.<