What can I do about these girls that target me at school?

[Jssy]

[@]@shar[/@] I got my mum involved before, but school didn't do much.
[@]@neversoft[/@] I guess you're right. My mum tried to contact someone higher before but they said she couldn't see headteacher unless my head of house felt it necessary and she didn't. To be honest when I refused to come to school in lower years because of bullying she told my mum that a lot of kids make up that excuse to avoid school so I kinda lost faith in telling her anything, but we have a male head of house that's head of 2 houses and he's pretty good. He makes me write a statement then has a word with the people involved but they always carry on.
[@]@buttons[/@] Thank you, your post made me smile haha. I just kinda feel like it's not even worth reporting because when I do they carry on and tell people I'm a snitch etc and it just kind of makes me feel nervous and powerless
[@]@Mathew[/@] Yeah, I wish I could remember my years at school as great times, but it sucks being one on the unpopular ones. I'll see what I can do about it tomorrow. Everyone has told me that it's much better after school and I kinda think it will be easier at college because everyone will be on the course for the same reason as me and I hope to have a fresh start at college and meet some new friends

[Mathew]

Yep, go see your Headteacher tomorrow and get it sorted! You don't want it to get in the way of your exams. Everyone has chosen those courses at College because they're interested so they'd be silly to make a mess of it. I should also add that the group of "bullies" at High School have ended up getting absolutely nowhere so far. Myself among others have gone on to achieve some pretty good grades, so hang in there and let karma do its work..

[buttons]

sorry but your school sucks. i thought mine was bad. you're only powerless right now because you let them get one over you. you really need to stand up to your head, challenge them, refuse to do work, make a scene, threaten to go to the council or something until they do something about it. okay maybe not make a scene but prove to them you are absolutely serious and you WILL get something done about it. talk to that male head you mentioned. take action now, don't put up with it any longer. it's so easy for me to say this aha but i wish people would realize they really have the power to do what they want and be what they want. and i wish i did it when i was younger rather than let everyone walk all over me. i had to be taken out my drama class cause i was constantly being picked on by the same 3 girls. my mum had to get involved cause i decided i'd stay at home doing nothing and ruin my education because of them which you really shouldn't have to do. and actually i'm really glad that you don't do the same that i did, run away from it all.

being unpopular rocks. all the popular girls **** each other off and are fake friends. who actually wants attention and having to please everyone. BORING. be yourself.

[dbgtz]

What saddens me most about this is how the school really does nothing at all, I wouldn't bother with relying on the school anymore as quite frankly a lot of teachers just do not care and any that do are practically powerless to do anything. The punishments these days are ineffective to most people because they get so much detention it's basically just another lesson to them which occurs daily. In my opinion you should do one of two things. Either wait until college, as that is likely to get rid of it (as hopefully they'll mature, or you'll just never see them) or show what they wear isn't the "right" style and the fact fashion constantly changes anyway, and you could mention the fact you'd rather innovate then be a sheep following the majority. Show her all types of people and that just because they are also alive does not make them superior.

[Inseriousity.]

being unpopular rocks. all the popular girls **** each other off and are fake friends. who actually wants attention

haha I'm glad it's not just me who thought this. People trying to butt into everything about your life, no thank you!

Part of bullying is that they're looking for a reaction. Bullies get off on knowing their bullying is working so if you can't hit them (this is one way to show it's not working but is often unrealistic and impractical) you just need tohold your head up high and get through it somehow.It's going to hurt. I have had the 'but you cant even look after yourself' insult thrown at me but it's all about positive thinking. Just think 'theyre gonna be working in [insert horrible place here]' when theyre older. Even if it doesn't turn out to be true, itkeeps your hopes up!Nearly there, you'renear the end of school so just hang on in there. You can do it.

PS. I loled at the name of that lesson though.

[-:Undertaker:-]

If any of it is physical then it needs to be met with a physical response.

[Jssy]

Thanks guys, so far it's gone well. None of the girls have said anything in the past few days like they usually do so hopefully it will always be like this from now on. Anyway I found out they're applying for a diff college to me

[Samantha]

That's good to hear, the same thing happened to me in English but my friend in english got an email about anti bullying week and to get in contact with this teacher if they know anyone getting bullied. She contacted my form tutor about me, and my tutor took me outside in lesson and asked if I was ok, saying someone had reported it. She said she spoke to my english teacher and said he just replied 'they aren't bullying, just being loud' (he was joining in so it was obvious he'd say that) like one lesson they just went on and on about my boyfriend and my teacher joined in answering questions they were asking me?

They kept toning down and they don't bother now. What I noticed is, take one out of the group and get them alone, they are a whole different person!

[beth]

being popular doesn't automatically make you an idiot yaknowwww people. ha.

[sorrydude$]

Too much to read, but according to the titles, my answer is...
Call the police! REport them. Send them to prison.