What's the best way you've handled a break up or found which keeps your mind occupied?
What's the best way you've handled a break up or found which keeps your mind occupied?
God said, let there be light.
Only ever had one breakup that I was overly bothered about and to be honest I just continued with the plans we had made prior, I went to the movies alone followed by dinner. We remained friends after the event but it was a bit weird for a while.
It's just I've recently broke up with a my girlfriend and it's my first serious relationship and I honestly don't know what to do with myself. I feel dead inside.
God said, let there be light.
onto the next one
In a seriousness, grieving is not a bad thing. Depending on how long you were together, this time may be longer than you want.
Mainly looking at the things you've learned from the relationship and things you didn't like from it as well. You also have to reflect on whether the relationship was bringing you down or building you up. Maybe you have gotten out of a poisonous relationship and you haven't realized it yet.
But reach out to your friends, talk and explain how you feel.
Breakups are the worse because it feels like you lose half of yourself, but hopefully next time you'll be more independent that the person only builds on your independence, so you don't fall into the same rut You're in now.