How long would you wait?

[Rachel]

Well I waited 5 months to make sure I really know him and that I am comfortable with him. I have been with him for 2 years and 2 months now and at least we took our time. We were both virgins and I was 18 and he was 17 when we first met now I am 21 .

Just don't plan to do have sex, go with the flow. If you plan sometimes you may regret it and you don't want this to happen. Just make sure you are both ready. It just comes naturally when you want to do it. The right moment will come

[Kardan]

I waited 9 months. Personally I reckon a few months is acceptable. A few weeks I wouldn't consider acceptable, but that's jusy my own opinion. People can do whatever they want

[-Nick]

No offence but you plan sex? Is it on your calendar?

Probs when your ready lol

[Kardan]

No offence but you plan sex? Is it on your calendar?

Probs when your ready lol

No, but people are discussing after how long do they feel 'ready'.

[-Nick]

No, but people are discussing after how long do they feel 'ready'.

How long would you wait the question is

[Kardan]

How long would you wait the question is

Yes, how long would you wait until you are ready to have sex, which is what I said.

[-Nick]

Yes, how long would you wait until you are ready to have sex, which is what I said.

But then still you wouldn't plan this lol?

[Kardan]

But then still you wouldn't plan this lol?

No, but many people would also agree that they wouldn't have sex on the first date, so the thread is a discussion on when you would feel ready, of course it would change based on each circumstance.

[-Nick]

No, but many people would also agree that they wouldn't have sex on the first date, so the thread is a discussion on when you would feel ready, of course it would change based on each circumstance.

Exactly so you wouldn't plan it lol ?

[Kardan]

Exactly so you wouldn't plan it lol ?

It depends on the circumstance. I have planned before in the past.