are you forgiving

[-:Undertaker:-]

are you forgiving

i mean in terms of friends. see i think i am but deffo not at same time. if a friend stole money from me for example that'd literally be the end of it but when we have arguments or fights (drunk) i literally never hold it against them. in uni you're living with ya mates so obviously your on top of one another all the time and i remember if it'd ever boil over like a bit snappy the next day everything would be fine

i think though that's more lads who are like that too though so that helps. girls seem to hold grudges for much longer do you not agree?

so i'd say i'm very forgiving over trivial stuff yeah

wbu

[Martin]

I think it really depends what it is they've done really. Some things are way easier to forgive than others and can affect you in different ways I guess. Generally I would say I'm too forgiving sometimes as I often let people walk all over me haha.

[Elegance]

yes in terms of everything

holding grudges is effort and just prolongs discomfort and anger so forgiveness is always best!

i do believe people take advantage of it though sometimes and walk all over me lol

[Cerys]

Depends!
With online people no. I recently decided anyone who is horrible to me online I block them out of my life, no 100 chances anymore don't have time to waste on them
And since making that change and blocking those I've been loads happier

Then with in real life it's based on what they've done. Usually I don't fall out with people over petty things but if I did I wouldn't hold a grudge. If I fell out with a friend tho I would try to forgive them cos I'd value their friendship more than whatever we fell out over

[Sho]

i am really forgiving which is mostly a good thing, but it's also my biggest weakness. i see the best in people so i forgive them for things instead of holding grudges, or i focus too much on the good things about them and i sometimes forget that they have a bad side too and let them walk all over me.

[dbgtz]

Partially. I will happily move on from most things but I won't forget them, and when something gets bad then I really won't let it go.

[Alysha]

if its something small, then yes completely
but i hold terrible grudges if its something more serious, i still think about some of my grudges to this day and get angry

[whoeful]

depends who the person is, how much they mean 2 me and how often they upset me

most of the time im not forgiving

[Empired]

Quite simply I get bored of holding a grudge if that person is my friend. I'll be all upset and not want to speak to them but five minutes later I'm just like kk this is boring and I have stuff to tell you so let's TALK

[nat965]

I'm pretty forgiving. Haven't had to face any situatrions where I haven't forgiven someone somewhere down the line. Entirely depends on the situation.