used to be my mum even though my dad did more for us parenting wise
then when they split up i was focused on my mum and lived with my dad, had a rough time there and a bit thing happened so lived with my mum and was so thankful for her
now i live with my mum still but we don't talk as much at all, she's never really home (travels for work and stays out for days in hotels) so don't get to chat to her enough to consider being close
see my dad once a week and we just chat randomly
not specifically close with either of my parents anymore, keep all my secrets/stories and whatnot to myself