There is an enormous difference between having an opposing opinion about how to live your life and actually wanting things to be illegal because you don't like it. Having transgender people in the military doesn't infringe on anyone's rights unless you believe it's your right to force people out of the public service job they want
By all means, be as edgy and offensive as you want, but don't expect people to just sit there and agree when you demand freedom of speech while in the same breath advocating against actual life changing freedoms