Yeah, k, I'm not going to mention a name or a story in this because It'd be like my life story :L
Basically, I want to know how I can stop being so forgiving towards people? ;/ It sounds insane but...
I've always had this thing. I find it impossible to hate someone or something - they may annoy me for a short while and I may ignore them, but I really cannot find it in me to hate anything > I'm not capable of disliking something that much :S. The longest I've managed to ignore someone is literally a month - I just give in and forgive them because I forget the past too easily?
Also, in many situations, I end up feeling sorry for the person who has pissed me off. I mean, someone has mocked me 'very harshly' because of issues with my dad and childhood and managed to make me cry (>_>) and I don't even hate them... I actually feel sorry for them if they're upset (ignoring the entire idea of Karma :S)
Anyway - I'm fed up of it now. I literally have not wanted to forgive so many people, but I'm so incapable of doing it ;/ people say it's a "nice quality" to have - but it honestly isn't... it just allows people to think they can walk all over me and expect me to not care/forgive them instantly?
Honest to God can someone tell me how you manage to actually not forgive/hate someone :/